Should Gay people have the Same Right to Marriage as Straight people?

Is it wrong, or it is right for gays to be married? I gotta hear this.

Posted By BigMACK on September 9, 2007

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Gay people should have the right to get married. If straight people can ...

Posted By angelme on September 10, 2007

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For the Sake of our Republican Congressmen

Posted By chloroflexus on September 10, 2007

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Gays should be allowed to marry, why should they be happy all the time?

Posted By damianmc on September 11, 2007

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Equality and Freedom Of Religion

Posted By DoubleFeel on September 10, 2007

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Gays should be able to be married.

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Marriage is a manifestation of intense emotion and should not be limited to gender boundaries.

-- Posted By Robpea on September 9, 2007

Why would anyone matter who another man/woman married? Unless the institution is governed by religious motivations- The LGBT community should be allowed secular rights to marry and receive secular benefits as married couples. Are we free or fascist?

Marriage is between two people, regardless of gender. This country was founded on freedom (not, by the way, on Christianity -- see the Treaty of Tripoli for this point), and to deny freedom to a group of people based on their preferences goes against eve

Marriage is not simply manifstation of intense emotion..that's trying to phillosophise a 'b!#%#^$t' using so called intelligent reasons. If so, on this basis alone a son can marry with his mother or a daughter can marry with her father, rite! .

just because you think it's "icky" doesn't give you or anyone else the right to deny someone their freedoms. the same was thought not that long ago that people of different races shouldn't marry and, in fact, there were some states that banned interracial

My loving someone of the same sex does no harm to others, aside from getting nosey people's panties in a twist because of things they believe are going on in the bedroom. If I want to officially show my love for someone, I should be allowed to.

It was never meant to support that though. It's meant to support the union between a man and woman.
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From_the_east

Please stop using "the Bible" as proof material, you make sensible Christians look stupid.

-- Posted By eastwind on November 15, 2007

People have free will and should be allowed to live how they should. No everyone believes in the Bible, using that as a point of reference becomes annoying to people who think the Bible is a waste of paper. So stop using it as a crutch, idiot.

Jake

If you're not gay, is this really any of your business?

-- Posted By Jake_the_Mad on September 12, 2007

Your only legitimate option in life, if you're anti-gay, is to continue not being gay. It neither breaks your leg nor picks your pocket for gays to be married, so all the moral soap-boxing is exactly that; soap-boxing, and not a thing more.

Person_60

Gays should be allowed to marry, why should they be happy all the time?

-- Posted By damianmc on September 11, 2007

What is this supposed to mean?

uh.. that the rest of us are married and miserable, why should homosexuals be exempt. .

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the bible is hardly a legitimate source to base any decision of this magnitude on.

-- Posted By jhall85 on September 19, 2007

who gives a flying f&#k what the bible says? not everyone in this country is Christian. it is ignorant to even bring the bible into this argument. .

Why would you take the Bible literally regarding gay marriage? Do you also think it's all right to sell your daughters into slavery? The Bible says so.

Freesouljah1

seperation of church and state.

-- Posted By freesouljah on September 11, 2007

there is supposed to be a seperation between church and state....at least in the united states...

The U.S. was founded on secularism, but everyone has this Christian morality where they say "marriage is between man and woman, sacred to god" but they fail to see not everyone believes in their religion. Therefore we spit in the faces of many.

the united was found "under god." the united states was NOT founded on secularism!

listen to you. you can barely type. God is dead. f##k off redneck.

Forgiveness_1

Marriage is as much an economical issue as it is a "loving" issue.

-- Posted By ryancrrrrr on September 11, 2007

Homosexuals should be aloud the same benefits for marriage as heterosexuals because it is SEXIST to deny them otherwise. . If homosexuality is a biological development, it is wrong to deny marriage. And in our modern society, you almost have to be married to afford a home, insurance, and other societal needs.

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Gay people should have the right to get married. If straight people can marry then why not them?

-- Posted By angelme on September 10, 2007

Stopping gay marriages will not stop gay people from homosexual activities. .

There is no rational, or logical, argument against homosexuality, or homosexual marriage. However, an argument can be made from any moral standpoint in support of gay marriage. Thus, gay marriage should be allowed and it is immoral to refuse it.

Person_60

Denying gay marriage will take away Gay Americans Health insurance

-- Posted By wwwvalueALLfamiliescom on May 31, 2008

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Please go to this website. It shows how James Dobson of (Focus on the Family) uses gays for political advantage. Karl Rove had Dobson on his speed dial. Just another way for Republicans to divide and conquer. The marriage amendment will not only make “marriage” illegal for gay Americans but also ANY kind of legal civil unions. What everyone seems to be leaving out is the second sentence of the marriage amendment. It states “all legal rights associated with marriage can not be given to gays.”

In Michigan this month, 375 gay Americans in committed domestic partnerships just lost their health insurance because of the 2004 Michigan “marriage amendment.” This is not what America stands for. It is simply prejudice against gay people. We need to grow up and vote for things that matter. Bashing gay people should not be top of the list. The “caveman” thinking of the Republican party has got to go.

Yabba “W” Doooooooo

Extinguish the CAVEMAN in 2008. Vote Democratic!!!! We the people means ALL the people.

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For the Sake of our Republican Congressmen

-- Posted By chloroflexus on September 10, 2007

Maybe if gays were accepted in society our gay republican congressmen would be able to be themselves and live happy lives with their partner without having to seek out gay sex through the anonymity of a bathroom stall.

Or have illicit conversations with their pageboys via the internet. (snickering).

Person_60

Marriage has become a joke with a super high divorce rate and celebrity marriages.

-- Posted By wiggedywack on September 10, 2007

Celebrity marriage and high divorce rates are how you quote end quote "Christians" handle something SACRED like marriage. Why should legislature take time to create laws to limit a love between two people? We have bigger problems. Global Warming?!. People can actually register on line for a license to join two people in marriage. The points that have been made on the other side of this page are hardly good arguments. . Homosexuals should be allowed to marry because of love. I'm gay, and if I can't get married in the church so be it. But you can get married by a Justice of the Peace. When two people love each other they should be allowed to marry. Oh, and since when has marriage just been about pro-creating. Last time I checked, it IS possible to get pregnant without marriage. Marriage isn't sacred anymore. It's a way of showing a union with state & government.

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Equality and Freedom Of Religion

-- Posted By DoubleFeel on September 10, 2007

All men are born equal, and deserve the same rights. Furthermore, a person has the right to do as he pleases as long as he doesn't hurt anyone. .

Freedom of religion means that no matter what your religion says, no one is obligated to follow it against his will. If according having sex with fat people is immoral, I can't illegalize fat sex.

Person_60

We don't make people practice their religion a specific way, why would we with sexuality?

-- Posted By neverbeuseless on September 10, 2007

Though people may not agree with the way some people practice their religion, we do not stop them from practicing it. Why should we stop people from exercising their sexuality? If they can find a church to marry them, then who are we to stop them?

Person_60

The balance of this world is more than the gender of people

-- Posted By spliced on September 10, 2007

I agree that this world is about balance, but to say that it revolves around gender just seems much too short-sighted. Anyone (who is consenting) should be have the choice to get married.

Person_60

Homosexuals have all the same rights as heterosexuals except marriage, that is wrong.

-- Posted By joe573 on September 10, 2007

Marriage is nothing more than a legal institution, a contract, in the eyes of the government. Homosexuals can sign other contracts, why not let them marry?. Marriage is not the sacred union many make it out to be. With a divorce rate of over 50% in this country marriage is almost a joke. Rarely does anyone say "until death" and mean it.

If two homosexuals want to pledge their life to each other, and actually mean it, more power to them.

Gays do not have the same rights as heterosexuals. In america, LGBT people can still be fired from their job and gay can be written on the pink slip. That is one of the few ways that homosexuals do not yet have the same rights as heterosexuals.

Me_at_ak_s

Why does everyone think they have the right to judge everyone's right to love and marriage?

-- Posted By jamesnyogi on September 12, 2007

I'm not much of a religious person, but didn't God say we weren't to judge people...that it was HIS job? No one has the right to deny two people who love each other the rights that marriage provides.

making a statement about a person's religious convictions is not a judgement. the bible says that we can know them by their fruits.

Person_60

marriage is a religious concept. they should be allowed to be married if their church allows it.

-- Posted By samiam007xxx on September 12, 2007

government's should not be allowed to stop any citizen from freely bonding themselves to another citizen. morality is the province of religions - not governments.

i believe that priests/parsons should not be allowed to "marry" people (legally speaking). i'll say it again...legal unions are gov't things...a marriage is a religious/moral oath - not a gov't thing.

Gays should not be able to be married.

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In this world, couples and partners are male and female, so as not to upset the balance.

-- Posted By lindsayloo14 on September 10, 2007

Homosexual relationships are appreciated and recognized, and are certainly not less valid than heterosexual relationships. But the institution of marriage is sacred--marriage should be the basis of a family, and it takes male/female for a family.

Marriage, especially in a civil, legal, secular sense is in no way 'sacred.' It's not labeled as such in any legally relevant or (arguably) nonfictional document.

The sacred institution of marriage should be reserved for heterosexual relationships because men and women create the balance. To every yin there is a yang, to every light a darkness, and that principal is true in marriages and relationships.

This idea of marriage as "sacred" is only archaic. Marriage is not an invention of the church and is now a matter of the government. If a church refuses to house a gay wedding, that is there right, BUT, they may not force that view into law.

How can you put a gender on someones core being, heart, soul (whatever you believe in)? The very thing that soars when you feel love. You make marriage seem so generic and void of emotion. When you break it down aren't we all basically the same?

Women are crazy. It's a scientifically verified fact. Why men would even consider a long-term contracted relationship with one isn't logical. Men should be with men, and the crazies should be together. Unless they're lesbian. They're almost men.

It not that Gays should NOT be able to marry. Its weather or not it should get as much hype in the media. Its just as unmoral to "flaunt" you homosexuality as it is for people to ridicule it. I don't go running around shouting LOOK! I'm STRAIGHT!

You do in fact flaunt your heterosexuality each and everytime you walk down the street holding hands, or kiss in a public place. I take great umbrage at you saying that lesbians are almost men.. your ignorance is showing..

Now on to the issue: Marriage is not sacred, it is a contractual protection of property rights for people who have chosen to share their lives together. If it was just a matter of religion, there would be no problem since there are plenty of churches who would (and do) perform marriage ceremonies for gay couples. The problems come when these couples work a life time together, then one dies and his or her family comes and not only takes all that they had together, kicks the life partner out on the street, sells off all the assets, and has no regard for the living partner.
Marriage is the basis of a family, yes, I agree. In gay couples, it is a family of choice rather than breeding. I was just as much family with my life partner as anyone who can legally get married.. notice "legally" since my unions are not recognized by the courts, I have to have special dispensations for just about everything from the title deed on the property we own to the insurance, to the bloody last will and testament, and guess what? Even when all the t's are crossed, all the i's are dotted and things have been set down the way both partners want it, a family member can come and challenge the will and take everything away from the surviving partner.
Flaunting? you bet your sweet arse if that is what I have to do to get equal rights under the law. I already know I have equal rights under my religious beliefs. When you stop your disgusting public displays of heterosexuality, we will be happy to do the same.
In my 56 years, I have had the misfortune to bury a son and two life mates. There was no question of my "right" to bury my son. What galls me most is not the properties stolen by "in-laws", nor the mementos of a lifetime together court ordered surrendered to family members who had virtually no contact with the deceased, it is that the state would have preferred to bury my mate in a pauper's grave rather than release her to be buried in our "family" plot that I owned outright. In a time of great distress I was forced due to no "legal" relationship to fight for the body to be released to me for burial (and threaten them with bodily harm as it happened)to win the right to bury my family together. I won one and lost one. Sometimes that is how it goes.
You will notice I said family. My family is no less valid than your state sanctioned one whether you choose to believe it or not.

In the Netherlands, there is no mention of gender in the marriage law. It has not been the downfall of society there, and forward looking countries like France are considering legislation of a similar nature. There has been to degrading of "family values" or any other negative consequences to these moves towards a more accepting social structure.

Perhaps if you take a long hard look in the mirror, you will see the hidden bigotry that your point of view fosters. If we be mad, it is because society has pushed us beyond the line. Quit pushing.
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Eyes

Marriage is between a woman and a man. Call it a civil union, but don't call it a marriage

-- Posted By Pamela1129 on September 14, 2007

Marriage is between a man and a woman and despite the decline in this institution it is still the best envronment for children. .

Tim

Gay people SHOULD NOT be married!

-- Posted By samiam on September 9, 2007

Marriage is between a man and a woman. Marriage is to pro create, last time I heard, it took a man and a woman to make a baby, two men or two women can't make babies!

Also, infertile people and post-menopausal women should not be allowed to get married. Marriage for the procreating only!

I don't think it has anything to do with being free or facist. I think, since this country was founded on the principals of christianity, that gay marriage is against everything that we stand for. For one thing it's sick and twisted. It's sad really.

yea, because the fact that not a single one of the writers of the constitution was Christian clearly shows our Christian heritage.

also proof of our christian heritage is the fact that the majority of the inhabitants of the colonies that weren't just her

Actually, "democracy" or "republic" is what this country was founded on, NOT Christianity (those words are also missing from the Bible, which actually praises kings and dictators).

That is assuming you believe that homosexuality is in anyway anti-christian. Which, for your information, it is not. Despite various misinterpretations of Leviticus; Homosexuality is no more sinful than any other form of love.

So since you think that this country should STAY THE SAME and not change? Foreign countries treat their women like second or third class citizens. Women aren't allowed the same freedom, just like the US used to be like. What a lame argument!

Yeah and the same people who formed the country with "Christian heritage" also took part in slavery, the KKK, the suppression of womens rights and many other horrible things and acts towards people. They were able to see the error of their ways.

Because Thomas Jefferson, Benjamin Franklin, Thomas Paine, and most likely the majority of the other 'founding fathers' were super-religious and not for scientific, logical/reasonable enlightenment at all, right?

Not to mention that there is a separation between church and state. Being founded on Christian values is a ludicrous argument.

I also agree with the maintaining of our separation of church and state. The corrupt government shouldn't abuse the ideals and beliefs of christianity to justify their negativity, and bigotry.

I think straight people procreate too much. That's why there're 6.5 billion people on earth and we're running out of resources to sustain everyone. Marriage isn't about procreation. . And it's mature, socially ethical, moral, and sensitive people who make good parents. I don't see heterosexual (being physically attracted to the opposite sex), as being any of those qualities, specifically.

I wonder if you have ever even read a history book. This country was NOT founded on Christian doctrine, it was founded to allow for religious freedom, and actually,there were more economic reasons (cites the Boston tea party) such as taxation without representation. The founding of the colonies was to escape religious persecution, the founding of the country was to break away from unequal rights.
There is in hiding at this time, a doctor who developed a way for two women to pro-create... it wasn't a very popular idea since it basically did away with any need for a male for the process. As to your wanting to limit marriage to pre-menopausal women, keep your bloody laws off my body thank you very much.
You say heteros (shall we call them breeders?) pro-create too much and thus you blame over population .. has it occurred to you that perhaps a very natural "birth control" or population control might be evolving.. called homosexuality?
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Weather or not Gay marriage is right, there shouldn't be such a media hype about it.

-- Posted By Kliflosises on September 14, 2007

t not that Gays should NOT be able to marry. Its weather or not it should get as much hype in the media. Its just as unmoral to "flaunt" you homosexuality as it is for people to ridicule it. I don't go running around shouting LOOK! I'm STRAIGHT!

Person_60

Homosexuality should not be encouraged as a viable form of sexual union

-- Posted By Hunter2008 on September 18, 2007

the bible states that it is an abomination. sexual sin causes the most types of trouble than anything else. aids,stds,divorce,unplanned pregnancy, teen pregnancy, ect... God does not created homosexuals, therefore homosexual marriage is against everything natural. when is the last time you saw two male horses having sex?

It has been documented that there are several counts of homosexual pairing in the animal kingdom. Penguins, monkeys, sheep, pigs, flamingos. This list goes on, my uninformed friend: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Homosexuality_in_animals.

Person_60

Marriage? The arguement should be whether they should be in jail for being perverts!

-- Posted By visionary1 on September 10, 2007

The more "gays" appear in public life the more they prove that they are twisted corrupt individuals. They are an abomination and should be exterminated!. ok so i think that unless you have met a lezbian couple, then you shouldnt be able to talk about them...

And while we're at it, we should exterminate all black people because we know they like to steal. Oh, and the jews because they're greedy.

Please, peverts are every walk of life: Child rapists, murderers, and men who are about the "conquest"

Extermination? Are you kidding me? People like you should be exterminated, not people who prefer their own gender. If hate is the only response you have to offer, then your opinion should be kept to yourself.